GOT A BARBADOS TALE TO TELL?
Share at least 75 words in the comments section below that explain your most memorable Bajan adventure. If our editors select your entry as their favorite, you and a guest will be off to Barbados for a three-night luxury stay on the island's Platinum Coast, courtesy of the newly renovated Tamarind Hotel!
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My wife and I were at the end of a one week vacation to Barbados in January, 2007. I hired a taxi driver to give us a tour of the island and a stop at a local restaurant for lunch. He was able to show us the beautiful country as only a local would know. The last stop for the day was in Bathsheba for some photo ops and a couple drinks at Dina's Bar and Cafe. Inside, we enjoyed conversation with Dina and even an off duty Barbados Police Officer. We bought a couple souvenier t-shirts, said goodbye and Dina walked with us back down to our taxi. As we said our final goodbye, my wife, a bit tipsy, stepped backwards into a 12" deep gutter and fell right into it. She wasn't hurt, only her pride, but was soaked in rain water. Dina ran inside her home and brought her out another t-shirt and a pair of her overalls for her to change into dry clothes.
We can only laugh at that experience and appreciate the true Caribbean hospitality and generousity that Dina showed us that day!
Upon concluding a cruise at Barbados one year my wife and I decided we would rather do some touring of the island rather than shopping. So, in Bridgetown we found an interesting cab driver who agreed to provide such. Upon commencing the tour, for reasons too lenghthy to describe herein, he told us he would give us "the tour of our lives". And, he did. The next year we decided on a cruise commencing in Barbados and then to arrive four days early to enjoy the island. While checking in at our hotel I asked the desk clerk if he knew the name of the older, very courteous and accommodating cab driver we had had the year before. He did not, but while enjoying drinks and the beautiful terrace overlooking the beach and ocean the bartender approached our table and asked if I was Mr. R, and he then said I had a phone call. Very fearfully I answered the phone and, thankfully, it was our cab driver who the desk clerk had located without our request. We met him in Bridgetown the next morning, and he became our chauffeur and tour guide the rest of the week, providing us excellent service and numerous memories of Barbados we will never forget, such as sightseeing, dining recommendations, a homemade craft gift, and port embarking service. We are looking forward to a future trip to Barbados.
Barbados eh?????? Well I've never been, BUT I would love to go...my husband & I need a vacation so bad, stress is our middle names right now and stress is not good, so we'd like to say "we went to Barbados and got D-STRESSED!!!! We have heard it's beautiful, but would love to see for ourselves. Thank you from the stressed Canadians!!! Laurie & Jeff
we have made eight trips to BB with so many tales to tell but the most memorable is when we got married at White Sands beach,Barbados in 2008. We had 13 friends and family from across Canada, two friends from Jamaica and many Bajan friends, who have become family, in attendance. We may have to deal with cold Canadian winters but knowing we will be back again next summer keeps us warm in our hearts. We are truly Bajan in our soul's.
A Full and Fun Day.- My wife and I were returning to Barbados for our fifth trip, only this time we were with 25 close friends. I had planned a full day with Sarah of Glory Tours and we knew we had to stick to a tight schedule. We left the Carnival Victory at 8:30am and proceded to our depature area. Quammie from Glory tours was right on time and exactley where we were told he would be. The group boarded the van and up the beautiful Platinum Coast we went. Quammie told us about Claudette Colbert and Tom Selleck and showed us, as he drove, some gorgeous resorts, beaches and marinas. After about 25 minutes we reached our first destinantion North Point and it was spectacular. Cliffs, caves and caverns with a wonderful ocean view that was perfect for photographs. I had a Banks beer, it was 9:15am but I was on vacation, and was delicious as always. Back on the road to St Nicholas Abbey, where we met Simon Warren and toured the newest rum distillery on Barbados. After sampling the rum we went down the East coast, which is breath taking and learned about the notorious Sam Lord, and the musical Eddie Grant and Rhianna. The next stop was Crane beach at the southern end of the island. After a short sun and swim we proceeded to the Banks Brewery for a tour, shopping and sampling. I saved the best for the last destination, The Mt. Gay Welcome Center, where Stella and Christopher took great care of the group. After more sampling and shopping we made it back to the ship in time and there was talk of the gruop returning in 2012. Barbados was everyones favorite island.
My most memorable Bajan adventure is one to be launched... I'm a Barbados "virgin" and would explore all that the Bajan roots & rhythm has to offer including: kayaking on crystal clear Caribbean waters, exploring historic homes & buildings, shopping duty-free for gifts & jewelry for family & friends, swimming near curious sea turtles, dining on island cuisine, becoming one with the beach sand and enjoying the dynamic and exciting nightlife till dawn... to start it all over again! This "ships" ready to launch - name the date!
I have been wanting to go there for quite sometime now and i have not made up my mind for the summer 2011 destination.. The resort look like an awesome place to stay and snorkel too.
Beginning at age six I spent 15 winter vacations w/ my family in Barbados. I began to think of Barbados as my second home. When each vacation came to an end I cried. How can someone so young be so emotional about leaving a vacation spot? If one has never been to Barbados it's impossible to understand. The beautiful people, wonderful local cuisine, the Barbadian culture and so much more that drew me in right from the start! I've traveled to many other Carribean islands but Barbados was, and always will be, first in my heart and mind.
I will never forget the monkeys who roamed the property, horseback riding on the beautiful beaches, the "Merrymen" whose songs will never fade from my mind, the fabulous brunch at Crane Beach, gorgeous sugar cane plantations, the crabs that came out in droves when it rained, the hummingbirds that would sneak sugar from the breakfast table, or the vibrantly colored Hibiscus and the smell of Night Jasmine. But most importantly, I will always remember the gracious, friendly Barbadians who always had smiles on their faces and made each visit more memorable than the last. They taught me at a young age that it doesn't take much to be happy when you live on the beautiful island of Barbados!!
While visiting Barbados in November 2009 we found it to be the best Caribbean island that we have visited. The beaches are beautiful, people are friendly, great nightlife, Oistens is the best food, and the shopping is wonderful. One thing that is a must is to take Ted's Bus Tour through the island. Rum punch is served on the tour, and you stop to eat at a local restaurant. Ted makes the experience lots of fun. Once in Barbados you will never want to leave.
In 2004, at the conclusion of a wonderful day at a Bathsheba beach bar, the bartender "Shaky" invited the four of us (my wife, myself, and another couple) to join him at a local establishment owned by a friend. Feeling adventurous, we followed him inland to a local bar/eatery near St. Patricks, far off the coastal tourist track, where we were introduced to Woody. The next few hours were a microcosm of the true Caribbean experience: impromptu and totally unexpected fun and conversation with Bajans, all the while drinking Banks beer and eating homemade chicken livers and wings. My friend Knut still has fond memories of that evening whenever he gazes upon the Mount Gay ashtray that Woody insisted he take home to Germany as a souvenir from Barbados. I remember Woody refusing payment for all the food we shared.
In 2009, we spent a nice beach day just north of Bridgetown during a cruise stop. During the taxi ride back to the ship, the driver inquired at to whether this was our first trip to Barbados. When I retold the story of Shaky and Woody, his head spun around and his eyes opened wide, and he became very animated. Of course, he knew both Shaky and Woody, and he was happy to tell me than Woody had opened a second bar/eatery. Although he probably wondered how we all ended up spending an evening together, he never asked, as perhaps it did not seem that unusual to him.
Even with a population of over a quarter million people, our Barbados experience reinforces what a close-knit society one finds on many Caribbean island nations. The best travel memories are often those that are unplanned and unexpected, such as our chance meetings with Shaky, Woody, and the taxi driver.
First night Jump Up
After a long flight delay in Miami, my husband (then boyfriend) and I finally arrived at our hotel..tired, hot, thirty, hungry and did I say thirsty? After checking in and dropping our bags in our room we heard the faint noise of music...we wandered to the hotel bar only to find it closed..so we followed the sounds out to the street and went around the corner and into the middle of a Bajan Jump Up - people laughing and dancing and drinking and eating and just having a great time. My husband looked at me like a 4 year old in a candy store! It was such a welcome sight after a long delay.
Stehli and Chris Krause
Miami, FL
954-593-1482 cell
my husband and i have been visiting barbados for over 20 years and we have many tales to tell. our most memorable trip was in 1989 when we rented a house in bathsheba. there was no hot running water so we had to heat water on the stove for our showers-that is until we discovered the water pipes were above ground being heated by the sun and we could get a great hot shower between 4 and 5 in the afternoon.
(This is for the Tamarind Hotel trip)
FLOWER FOREST
On one of our Barbados trips, we set out with umbrella and camcorder to roam the trails in this iconically-named tropical park. Flower Forest is set in rolling hills in the middle of the island, with vistas to the hills and ocean. One can walk through the most amazing displays of flowering plants and trees, some seemingly reaching the heavens. Your senses come alive to the myriad colors, fragrances, and wildlife sounds as you move along with a grin on your face that says how lucky you feel to be in such a place.
As if that wasn't enough, a tropical shower appeared, so up went the umbrella. The camcorder captured the sounds and sights of the rainwater dripping off the umbrella, the shafts of sunlight through the raindrops, the water in shadow or sunlight on the trees and flowers. "Awestruck" might not be descriptive enough for our reaction to this display by Mother Nature.
By the time we reluctantly left, we understood the note that an earlier visitor had written in the park's visitor book, "If I owned both Paradise and Flower Forest, I would rent out Paradise and live in Flower Forest."
Ken Steiner xkenx@pacbell.net
My wife and I flew into Barbados on June 19, 2008 and stayed at the Silver Point Hotel. Before leaving the States I planned our next evening to coincide with the Summer Solstice while we were at Oistins Fish Fry. Instead of taking our rental car, we walked to the bus stop and took the local transportation to Oistins. I always try to be outside at the moment of the Solstice, and if I am with my wife, I mark the moment with a romantic kiss. Everything went according to my plan at the Solstice. We then went to a vendor, ordered our dinner, bought a couple of drinks and sat at a table outside. I then took my wife's hands as we sat there gazing out to the ocean and the surrounding area. I proceeded to tell her how lucky we were to be there, in beautiful Barbados, at Oistins, during the Summer Solstice and how much I loved her, and it just seemed like fate had all come together as I held my hands over hers. She returned a happy and loving look to me while I was professing my love to her when a huge deposit from a large bird flying overhead landed directly on my hands and splattered me. It was so perfect and romantic up to that point, that all we could do was laugh and recall how my loving soliloquy was punctuated.
My wife and I flew into Barbados on June 19, 2008 and stayed at the Silver Point Hotel. Before leaving the States I planned our next evening to coincide with the Summer Solstice while we were at Oistins Fish Fry. Instead of taking our rental car, we walked to the bus stop and took the local transportation to Oistins. I always try to be outside at the moment of the Solstice, and if I am with my wife, I mark the moment with a romantic kiss. Everything went according to my plan at the Solstice. We then went to a vendor, ordered our dinner, bought a couple of drinks and sat at a table outside. I then took my wife's hands as we sat there gazing out to the ocean and the surrounding area. I proceeded to tell her how lucky we were to be there, in beautiful Barbados, at Oistins, during the Summer Solstice and how much I loved her, and it just seemed like fate had all come together as I held my hands over hers. She returned a happy and loving look to me while I was professing my love to her when a huge deposit from a large bird flying overhead landed directly on my hands and splattered me. It was so perfect and romantic up to that point, that all we could do was laugh and recall how my loving soliloquy was punctuated.
A few years ago after planning our Barbados vacation, we decided to get married and make it our honeymoon. We started the party early at Oistens on Friday night. Drove all over the island, fascinated with the geology and warmed by the people. We rummed at the rum shops and visited the old Moravian Church, ruins of churches, and old Baobab trees. Our hosts kept suggesting that we needed to take in Bajan Roots and Rhythms. So for our last night, we made reservations and they picked us up. At table they quickly started plying us with rum drinks. We enjoyed the buffet with other guests at our table and more rum before they finally started the show. It was great fun, with the actors celebrating their culture while poking fun at themselves at the same time. After the show, the lights came up and the music started. We had another rum punch and, never shy to dance, made our way to the floor. We're not show dancers by any means but we're not inhibited either. So we swung and spun and had too much fun before finally calling it a night and catching our ride home. Not too much the worse for wear the next day, we proceeded through the airport processes. We were among the last to board. As we started down the aisle, someone said, "you're the dancers!" Suddenly half the plane was applauding as we smiled our way to our seats to savor the fine week on a warm and welcoming island.
While on Barbados at the Almond Resort on the West Coast, my husband Ted and I decided to take the local bus into Bridgetown for some shopping. We decided upon the local bus instead of a cab because we wanted to taste the "local flavor" of the island's peoples. When the bus came and we hopped on, it was fairly crowded and noisey and moved to the back. As more and more people got on, the bus became quite packed with local people going to work, etc. It seemed like every small group had their own "boombox" playing very loud, local music. So loud in fact, we couldn't even speak to each other. I became concerned as we got closer to the city that I would not hear or know what stop to get off at. I tried talking with a local standing next to me who was very nice but very much into his music. He saw me getting nervous and was kind enough to turn down the volume and assist us. He was such a nice, young man and we both never forgot the experience of "riding with the local people" on this very crowded and noisy bus. When we stepped off at our stop, everyone on board was still singing and talking but we could not hear ourselves as our ears were still ringing from the loud, festive music! We laughed about it later and decided to relive the experience and took the local bus back to our resort a few hours later. Linda & Ted Tozier @ tozier@hotmail.com
"Ha", our driver said, "I will make you want to come back, or maybe not even leave!" This is after I jokingly asked if he could empress us with his guiding ability and told him we have to have 1 or 2 hours at a nice beach before boarding the ship to another destination.
He drove us through some of the island historical sites-interesting, showed us where his wife worked-cool. Next over the island to the Atlantic..beautiful views of countryside and oceanside. We stopped at Round House restaurant for a snack and mmmm good libations. It's getting better as we go! I got to spend some time on the beach taking pictures and playing in the water so I'm happy. Back in the van and down the coast taking in the breathtaking sight of Bathsheba Beach. Ok man it's time to get some serious beach time, what have you got? He smiles with that look of "I'll take that challenge!" sit back, relax. A few passengers just couldn't resist the shopping district so just my wife and I land at Brownes Beach. We're pleased, very pleased. A small nominal fee gets us lounges and an umbrella steps from that blue cool water. The Boatyard Bar and Grill behind us served up some awesome fish cakes and calamari, Banks Beer and a Pina Colada. I find myself in the water, my wife looking for seashells which are few if any, so I show her how to dig sand dollars out of the ocean floor with my feet. I guess it was MY knack. Eventually I'm supplying three or four other ladies with a memento or two from the ocean floor. Certainly not enough time was spent on the beach that day, but it still beckons and yes, we will be back.
We visited Barbados on a cruise back in 1995. If only I knew then what I know about the island...I'd love to get back there and actually experience what I've read about over the last 15 years. The food, flying fish, Bridgetown, the people, the art, all of these are things I wish I knew about back then. We don't often get second chances to re-live an experience but this may be my chance to 'do it right this time'.
I first fell in love with Barbados in 2005, when I travelled from my home in Georgia to study abroad at the University of the West Indies in St. Michael Parish. On Thursday afternoons, one of my fellow students and I did not have any classes, so we would hop on one of the various forms of public transportation and embark on a new adventure each week – and the rule was that we had to go someplace on the island that neither of us had ever been.
Needless to say, we never ran out of adventures – and although we often found ourselves stranded, wet, lost, or confused, we had a blast. Usually, we chose somewhere “off the beaten” path and tended to avoid the more touristy areas. One of the first items on the agenda was to take a bus from Bridgetown to Bathsheba, on the East coast of the island. We decided that, since there was rumored to be excellent surfing there, we would try it out. I recall that it was raining and our large bus began to fishtail a bit on the steep, narrow roads that lead to the eastern coast. Finally, we rounded that last hill and were able to see Bathsheba. I will never forget that moment – the rain momentarily subsided as the sunlight shone on the most beautiful landscape I had ever seen. The waves were huge, the rocks magnificent, and the sleepy surfside town charming.
We rented our surfboards and began to swim out to where the waves were breaking, when a lifeguard yelled, “Have you girls ever surfed before?” “Of course we have”, we lied. Little did we realize that the waves in the Soup Bowl are huge – so huge, in fact, that there is a high profile international surfing competition there each fall. After a few terrifying moments of being pounded by the waves and truly believing that “this might be the end”, we frantically made our way back to shore where the lifeguard stood shaking his head and chuckling at us. It was a memorable experience, to say the least! That was my first visit to Bathsheba, but certainly not my last.
-Jessica Van Camp
jessyvancamp@gmail.com
It was my families first visit to Barbados in 1990. We stayed at a small hotel on the West Coast. My sons had been sea fishing with their father and when they returned they had caught several king fish. They presented the hotel with the king fish which was served up as a meal in the evening and for a barbecue the following lunch. The evening was finished off with a sing song with a local man on the beach. Perfect!
Having recently taken a trip to Barbados, I can honestly say it's impossible to narrow down and talk about only one adventure.
My girlfriend, Amy , and I went to celebrate her birthday in January of this year. From the beginning, the beauty of the island and the friendliness of the Bajan people was amazing. Again, I can't focus on only one incident.
Taking the bus into Bridgetown with the locals provided all the proof we needed as to whether or not "outsiders" were accepted. We didn't know where we were supposed to get off but an elderly lady showed us where and even walked us to our destination. She then turned around and walked back toward the bus stop. Only then did we relize she had walked past her planned stop just to make sure we didn't get lost.
We were also able to take atour of the entire island with a knowledgable guide and were able to sit in the front of the bus right beside him. tearing around those blind curves, on the "wrong" side of the road nonetheless, passing field after field of sugar cane was very exciting. The beauty of Flowers Cave, the rocks at Bathsheba, or the nearby St. John's church perched high on a hill are sights I will never forget. Amy swimming with giant sea turtles is a present money can't buy.
We stayed for a week but it was something that happened near the end of the trip that still amazes me. After a brief rain shower we headed to the beach. It was only then that we noticed a beautiful full rainbow in the sky which dipped down into the beautiful waters of the Caribbean. That signifies to me what lies at the end. Our pot of gold is the time we spent in Barbados.
As we boarded the plane for our flight attendant told us it was a "4 hour flight back to reality", but nature still had one more surprise in store for us. We were able to see the volcano on Monseraat erupting.
I must close by saying the next week , back home.........it snowed!
My wife (of 38 years) and I honeymooned at the Coconunt Creek Club in February, 1972. After leaving a snowy JFK airport and arriving in the sunny warmth of Bridgetown (both of our first visits to the Caribbean) we found the CCC's accommodations to be both private and friendly - perfect for a short honeymoon stay. The first evening my bride tried her first 'Navy Grog' and spent the night dancing to the steel drum band with a charming local fellow named Mervin. After a breakfast shared with some very entertaining small birds on the cozy, cliffside balcony, some time on the beach allowed us to 'recover' from the prior night of celebration. At dinner that next evening, the obvious fact that we were newlyweds attracted the attention of an 'older' (about our current age!) couple who said they were 'snorkling around the islands' and introduced themselves as 'Mr and Mrs. Hicks from Room 56' (a description we still laugh about). They were kind enough to send a bottle of champagne to our table....a gesture my wife and I try to emulate when we have the opportunity to dine with obvious honeymooners.
Our stay was also marked with a day spent being lost for the most part in cane fields and hills while driving our rented 'jitney' in an effort to find Sam Lord's castle, and a missed message from our airline (I forget which one) saying our flight back to New York had been cancelled and that we were rebooked on an earlier BOAC (remember them?) flight...which, obviously, we almost missed.
All in all a wonderful and memorable honeymoon in an island paradise. We plan to return for out 40th....if not before!!
Al Rush
Beaver, PA
There is no question that Barbados provided the most friendly locals we have expierenced in all the Caribbean. We only had 1 day on the island and myself, my wife and another couple were determined to make the most of it. The island was fabulous but the people made our trip. First, a cab driver who went out of his way to give us a free guided tour, on our way to Folkstone beach. Second, a passionate local Domino's champ offering advice to the intruiging Americans playing his national pastime. Third, a couple beers and a small locals pickup cricket game at Folkstone park. Fourth, a ride on the Reggae bus to the blue monkey, more a party than public transportation. Finally a determined beach hustler that negotiated a bargain snorkel adventure on his partners boat. The beaches were awesome, the snorkleing was great, but the people made the day. That day is what going to the Caribbean is all about. We need to go back for a full vacation.
Every February my husband and our two children travel to a different Caribben island. In 2010 we traveled to Grenada. Because of flight issues we ended up having an extended stay in Barbados. We were excited because we had not visited Barbados yet and had heard that it was beautiful. We stayed at the Divi Southwinds resort because of its proximity to the airport. Both of my children love nature and the beaches, but my youngest is really an animal lover, so when we read that there were green monkeys in Barbados, his goal was to see the monkeys. The girl at the front desk of the Divi told us that every morning and evening a pack of monkeys traveled through the resort, so we decided that we would get up early and take pictures of the monkeys. The first day we ended up sleeping in and spent the day at the beach. The waters were the beautiful warm, clear, Caribbean blue but there were waves!! My oldest son who is 15 was thrilled since he loves to surf, until he saw the dark shadows in the water. He ran out yelling that there were sharks in the water, which everyone surrounding us heard and also started yelling until half the beach was in an uproar. An older gentleman walked over and laughingly explained that the shadows were turtles swimming in the waves. My teenager was quite embarrassed and so were we, especially since that was one of the things we always are looking for when we snorkel! THe second day (our last) my youngest son (11) and I got up at 6:00 AM so see the monkeys. We took the cmaera and went over to the tennis courts like we were told and lo and behold there were the monkeys!! They were on the tennis courts playing - young and adult. My son walked onto the tennis courts talking softly to two young monkeys. I being the dutiful mother started taking pictures - with a flash. THe monkeys started screaming and running after my son. I started yelling for him to run out of the tennis court. As he did the adults started chasing him and I realized that they were afraid of the camera's flash. My son ran behind me and I was running backwards taking pictures with the flash trying to keep the angry monkeys away, when I tripped over my son and ended up laying on tip of him on the grass. THe monkeys looked at us and ran away. As I got up and helped my son up an audience of elderly people were all on the steps laughing at us. The same gentleman walked up to us and told us that the monkeys hate flashed. no kidding. to add insult to injury my son and I decide to walk over to beach since we obviously were not going back to sleep, and as we walked across teh cobblestone rd to the beach we strated gettinbg hit by nuts. We looked up in the trees and teh group of monkeys were pelting us with nuts. My son still really likes monkeys - I reserve my judgement.
Each year, my very best girlfriend and I research and plan our next Caribbean vacation. Our goal is to hit all of the Caribbean islands before we leave this earth. My husband is gracious to watch the children and allow us our one week a year of paradise. Last summer, we enjoyed the beautiful island of Barbados. Each morning we would get up and do a long walk down the sandy beaches on our side of the island. We enjoyed seeing the locals as they fished from shore. Sometimes we would experience a sun shower and would duck under a palm. But it was on our last day on the island that we experienced the most remarkable act of nature. As we were clipping along at a nice pace for exercise, my friend put her hand in front of my forward moving body in an effort to stop me in my tracks. She said, "Stop, look!" As I looked down in front of me, there were dozens of baby sea turtles scurrying to the shore. They were making their march to the water right there in front of us and it was such an amazing experience to witness. I was born and have lived in Florida all of my life and have never experienced the hatching of sea turtles in my 50 years. Thankfully, we captured it all on camera. It was as though the island was giving us a parting gift.
I submitted a Barbados story on September 16th, but it has not been posted. Should I resubmit?
Greg Sullivan, Irvine, CA gpsesq@yahoo.com
Although I've never been to Barbados, It seems like one of the few Islands where advertising and brochures do not do it enough justice. The place looks like heaven on earth. I imagine myself laying on the white sand beaches and forgetting about all the worries in the world. The crystal clear water looks like it goes on forever and the lush vegetation just adds to it's charm. I also would love to mingle with the locals who are lucky enough to call this small piece of paradise home. Enjoying the Bajan cuisine that has influences from all over the world simply heightens my senses and leaves me wishing I was on my way to the airport.
I would never forget, November 2005, my daughter's 4th grade parent teacher's conference. Hanging on the classroom wall was an exhibit of what the kids did over the Thanksgiving recess. Out of the mosaic of trips to Florida, and pictoral depictions of grandma's turkey, stood a picture of a yellow and blue hotel with the blue ocean in the background and fish flying out of the water. It was the picture my daugther drew of the Blue Horizon Hotel where we stayed over the holiday and the memory of actually seeing fish fly. As the parents stood admiring their kids art collections, the teacher asked what was their best memory, my daughter blurts out "eating fish on the side walk", her reference to Oistins Fish Fry. I almost doubled with laughter. Many memories have paled in comparison since then. She has never forgotten the wonderfull gentleman that took her to swim with the turtles on the Catarmaran, since I can't swim, or the night at the Planation. But if you asked her what was also fun about Barbados she will never forget to mention, "Mummy drinking Banks Beer!" We have not been able to vacation since then but I will never forget the memories crafted through the eyes of my daughter. If we call could be so innocent. Thank you Barbados.
Back roads of Barbados indeed! When my wife and I stepped off the cruise ship in Bridgetown last year, we decided not to hire a taxi driver to take us around the island, voting instead to rent a car for the day. Driving on the opposite side of the road was quite daunting, but the roads weren’t as bad as most other Caribbean countries. We toured the Mount Gay Rum plant, stopped at a beautiful beach near Holetown, then decided to venture inland to explore the less touristy parts of the island. We passed beautiful vistas near Bathsheba, school children on their way home in French Village, and countless sugar cane fields. While cruising down a windy slope, I took my eyes off the road for a split second and hit the curb. Fearing the worst, we got out and found the tire to be flat. I scrambled to the trunk to find the spare to tire also be flat!
Terrified, we walked down the road a bit to a seedy rum shack. We cautiously walked in and asked to use the phone. The bartender called the rental company for us, told them our location, then turned to us and said, “ya got nothing better to do; how about some drinks!” We sat in that shack for the next 2 hours with the locals telling stories and drinking beer. I’ve never felt that welcomed in any US bar. We shared stories about childhood and marriage, school and work, and an odd argument about how to best teach a dog to bark on command. The rental company arrived and gave us a ride back to the ship only minutes before departure. We’ve already begun saving to make a return trip to that tiny rum shack and revisit our Barbadian drinking buddies!
When you're trying to drink Mount Gay on Mount Gay, it's good to remember an old Bajan proverb:
Tekkin' time ain't laziness.
Forgoing the official company tour in Bridgetown, my wife and I set off in a moke to find the real Mount Gay, up in the northern parishes. Two hours later we found it -- a small hill, home to a tiny rum shop and not much else. Toasting our good fortune with rum and cokes, we ordered chicken with peas and rice, and sat down to wait.
And wait.
And wait.
An hour later, we started getting antsy. I mean, really! Here we are, wasting precious vacation time, when we could be relaxing!
And then the funniest thing happened.
Some kids wandered up. To pass the time, I taught one of them a game we played back in the Bronx, which involved shooting a quarter across a table so it hangs over the table's edge. I said if we won, he could keep the quarter.
Suddenly, a dozen kids appeared, lining up to challenge me. One finally emerged victorious, to the cheers of his compatriots. Some grownups wandered by and before we knew it, a party had broken out: People grabbed drinks, a boom box appeared, and we all started dancing to the latest cropover Calypso hits.
At some point, food actually arrived. But by now we'd learned our lesson for the afternoon, the lesson we all try to learn when we come to Barbados: That if you take the time to be in the moment, then time becomes immaterial, and every moment is there for you to savor; sweet and dandy, like a cold drink on a hot afternoon.
And that there is nothing better than lunch with the local folks.
Even if it teks a little time.
My future husband and I visited Barbados in the summer of July 2010. We rented a car and explored the breath-taking sites independently. During our expedition, we decided to go on an off road expedition and explore the unknown. As we drove down a teenie-tiny dirt road...we saw a car driving towards us with a man hanging out the window. As we drove backwards they drove towards us. Each snapping pictures of the unexpected meeting in the desolate area. The driver and passenger informed us that they were the editor and photographer of Carribbean Travel and Life and were looking for some adventurous tourists. Imagine our surprise when they informed us of the ruins they found down the trail. We followed their lead and were surprised at what we saw. The magazine that brings first hand knowledge everywhere you go.....especially when you talk to them in person!